Talking to your loved one about the possibility of moving into an assisted living community may seem like an impossible task. It is common to feel uncomfortable when suggesting to someone that they may need assistance with the completion of daily tasks or activities. Unfortunately, even though it may be an uncomfortable topic, getting assisted living help is probably not a conclusion that your loved one will reach on their own.
Getting the Conversation Started
Start the conversation early: You do not want your loved one to feel as if you are forcing them to move tomorrow. Begin talking about the possibility of moving into an assisted living community while it is still off in the distance. This will help them feel like it is less of an ambush, as well as, give them sometime to come to terms with the idea.
Do research: Having the information and facts about a few local assisted living facilities can help you plead your case. You can list the positives, as well as the negatives, of each facility. By simply relaying the facts, you can help dispel a few of the negative connotations that your loved one associates with assisted living.
Keep it private: Your initial conversation should be held in a comfortable private setting. If you would like another family member or two present, this is okay. However, try to minimize this number. You do not want your loved one to feel embarrassed or threatened in any away. By keeping the initial conversation private, they may feel more open to hearing about a possible assisted living move.
Focus on the positives: When your loved one hears the phrase "assisted living community," there is a good chance that it conjures up all sorts of negative imagery. This is why it is important to focus on the positive aspects that this change in lifestyle will bring. Talk about the services, the social opportunities, and the security. Explain to them how the move will impact their life in a positive way.
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